I want to withdraw money but I have not been able to withdraw money and they said I have to pay a fee to withdraw money

On 2021.12.3, I met a woman on a dating app who introduced me as a trader, and recommended me to the customer service. After depositing $1,000, the customer service contacted me and said that after the deposit of $30,000, there will be a warehouse that can be collected. Wait until me After slowly depositing in, it has not yet reached 30,000 US dollars. I want to withdraw funds and do not want to do any more. The customer service said that I need to pay a fee of 96,000. I also asked the woman from the dating software, and he also said that I have to pay the fee, right? It didn't take long for him to be contacted, and he was deceived by more than 440,000 yuan. In the end, I still can't withdraw the money, and now the customer service is still telling me that I need to pay 3,000 US dollars to withdraw the money.